Dear Abby: I have a hard time looking at my wife since she told me about the partners she had as a teen
DEAR THROWN: Consent laws can be confusing and can change over time, and a lot may depend on the age of each partner. However, rape is rape. When your wife was 15 and 16 an ADULT may also have been breaking the law by having sex with her, even consensually. After all this, she might have benefitted from counseling (if any was offered).